11.6

require-secure-transport on the server mandates that tls or
unix socket be used. The healthcheck user doesn't have explict
tls credentials, so would have failed. 11.4+ would have
tls negiotated, except in #594 it was disabled for people that
didn't configure ssl-ca correctly.

To resolve this _process_sql adds an explict --protocol socket
to get around the default configuration of 'protocol=tcp' in
.my-healthcheck.sh. The protocol=tcp was there to catch people
who put `healthcheck.sh --innodb_initialized` to discover it
checked that in the starting phase of the container, without
a tcp connection being available, it still returned true.

We work around this my making a connection test always
occur in the healthcheck.

Remove the protocol=tcp from the generation of .my-healthcheck.cnf
files.

--connect, as a method that requires to test the connection,
we add a mechanims that examines @@skip_networking and considers
that if false, the connection is viable. We made a unix socket
connection to do the test, which is active the same time as tcp
sockets are.

This alternate --connect method would have only worked the
credentials of the healthcheck user where valid. If it isn't
fall back to looking for "Can't connect".

Closes: #596