sync all resources to cluster fields (#2713)

* sync all resources to cluster fields (CronJob, Streams, Patroni resources)
* separated sync and delete logic for Patroni resources
* align delete streams and secrets logic with other resources
* rename gatherApplicationIds to getDistinctApplicationIds
* improve slot check before syncing streams CRD
* add ownerReferences and annotations diff to Patroni objects
* add extra sync code for config service so it does not get too ugly
* some bugfixes when comparing annotations and return err on found
* sync Patroni resources on update event and extended unit tests
* add config service/endpoint owner references check to e2e tes