This patch disables the change from upstream, which enables FRR by
default, as it fails without proper error message in L2 mode.

Reference:
https://github.com/metallb/metallb/commit/8286bd3c98b70e0121b500df3f72653fa17a831b

This patch fixes the broken garbage collection that is caused by a bug
in the current calico release. This is done by manually upgrading to a
newer patch release of the tigera operator which incorporates a fix.

The garbage collection is currently broken due to a missing permissions
to 'projectcalico.org/v3 Resource=bgpfilters' which results in a stalled
cache sync for the kube-controller-manager garbage collector.

Error logs:
```
graph_builder.go:281] garbage controller monitor not yet synced: projectcalico.org/v3, Resource=bgpfilters
…
garbagecollector.go:250] timed out waiting for dependency graph builder sync during GC sync (attempt 43)
```
References
https://github.com/projectcalico/calico/issues/7715
https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/bb878608686a6276cefec3f51bee5d79b0c8c393/pkg/controller/garbagecollector/garbagecollector.go#L143-L175

This reverts commit 342a9382.